When?

When I can look back and it doesn’t hurt me to do it,
When I can think of you with only fondness,
When I can see you and see only a friend,
When I can look back on what we shared and treasure the memories,
When I can see things with new eyes and put the past down to experience,
When I can hear your name and hear only that, a name,
When I can hear your voice, but not miss it once it’s gone,
When I can smile, and mean it, and not want to weep,
When I can want someone else and not want them to be you,
That’s when.